May 2013
“I no longer need you to fuck me as hard
as I hate myself.
Make love to me...”
– Buddy Wakefield, We Were Emergencies. (via thecollectionofparadoxes)
what you said was: "i don't respect women who don't respect themselves"
what you meant was: "i and society as a whole hold women up to ridiculous respectability standards directly relating to the "purity" of said women while hypersexualizing them at the same time and if you are a woman and don't fit my awkward monolith of criteria then i refuse to acknowledge your humanity"
what i heard was: "hi i'm a misogynist piece of shit, please punch me in my face"
